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Matthew Hussey: Do's and Don'ts for Your First Date
Matthew's at it again with a few gems of advice to prep you before you go out on that date. Matthew suggests:
- Don't take too long to get ready for a date. The longer you prep, the more nervous you get.
- Get physical right from the start. Give your date a hug, a high-five, a touch on the shoulder.
- Let him be the man. Let him feel needed and chivalrous.
- Don't spend time worrying about awkward silences. Let the silence pass without worrying about filling the space up.
- No complaining! No whining! Make a positive impression and don't moan about your life. Remember you're selling yourself!
- Laugh through the date. It's a great way to break the tension. Guys like women that make them feel funny. He'll have more attraction for you.
- Let every part of your personality shine through.
- Don't talk about your ex! Even if he asks, he really doesn't want to know.
- Make eye contact. When he's speaking, stare deeply into his eyes.
- Make the date short and sweet. Leave him wanting more!
- Most importantly, RELAX!
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123 responses to "Matthew Hussey: Do's and Don'ts for Your First Date"
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Khanshahar50 says:Posted: 06 Oct 17Hi I'm single want really love really life
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Ruthcute says:Posted: 18 Jul 17
They are really great and enlightening.. thanks Matthew.
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kahm123 says:Posted: 02 Jun 17Hi am a nice guy looking for a right relationship a right lady lovely beautiful
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Trini60 says:Posted: 26 Apr 17Great advice
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22chris says:Posted: 11 May 18
Hello Trini I just looked at your profile...first yo are beautiful and I like your words of who you want as a man...God fearing is the key to a successful relationship..but I must confess I like you
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Dorcas31 says:Posted: 21 Apr 17
I hope to find my dream men here, someone who well make me happy forever.
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joansony.7 says:Posted: 07 Feb 17i hope to find my dream man here..n some one who shares the same chemestry
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nadia80 says:Posted: 27 Jan 17
am 36 and am looking for much between 38 to 50.
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NaturalBarbi says:Posted: 01 Dec 16
I love this article! Looks like I don't have any issues in this department.
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shacelisa says:Posted: 18 Oct 16Thank you so much matthew for those tips .such kind guesture
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marie7i says:Posted: 05 Apr 22
Nice tips ..the problems is I didn't have any date yet so I can experience.
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Ugann says:Posted: 21 Jun 16
Any one who's serious place email me flove2383@gmail.com am black African I need white lady , if your not white please don't text me.Thanks
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Samkethe says:Posted: 03 Jun 16Thanx Matt.
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shillameg says:Posted: 20 Apr 16Thanks for the advice I will keep it in mind I need a matured christian man
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hearthealed says:Posted: 30 Apr 16I know the feeling.. I myself is seeking a god fearing man.
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Wie28 says:Posted: 05 Oct 16Same here
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miray001 says:Posted: 13 Jan 17Looking for a kind hearted man and loving too God fearing i know when we have known each other a little
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kahm123 says:Posted: 02 Jun 17
Hi babe u look very beautiful I rally love to have a lovely relationship with u
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Janesty says:Posted: 04 Mar 16Thanks for the advice. I'll try not to mess up my date. :) Thanks.
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mdota says:Posted: 03 Mar 16
Hi iam here waiting for my soul lover to meet her wl be the happest thng in my live
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whitcap says:Posted: 22 Feb 16
I want a date with a guy ,i want a man for a long relationships am lonelly pliz Asist me pliz
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Gha-gha says:Posted: 11 Feb 16Thanks for the advice,,i hope i can meet here so that i will show how i love him true.
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ict says:Posted: 27 Mar 16Dear am also here searching some one like you to spent the rest of ma life with
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greengrl1953 says:Posted: 02 Dec 15
Thank you, thank you, thank you! Coming from a man makes all the difference in the world. Why? Because it is quite obvious that guys and gals are different and have different needs/desires. And yet they have similarities as well. I guess it is all about letting balance happen freely- naturally. I knew about the whiny part and the ex part. Hell. I'd find that to be a downer myself. I think another thing is very important, actually 2. They are over thinking and not reigning in overly high expectations. We would all have expectations but it's when they get out of hand is when they pose the problem of disappointment because we are imagining what we WANT, not what is. Overthinking just causes stress which, somehow, always is able to be seen or heard. No one wants to be pulled "down". Would I be nervous. Oh yeah. Especially since I haven't even dated in 13 years. But I also realize I am probably more of a woman now than 13 years ago. I was attractive 13 years ago in a different way yet all these years later I am still attractive in another way. But what's really attractive is what, how, and who I am.
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Hotboxxx says:Posted: 22 Nov 15Hi every 1
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RajeRa says:Posted: 31 Oct 15Love is god love blind .I like love .Some one love I have no girlfriend.
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miray001 says:Posted: 13 Jan 17
HellO...am also looking for love and single too
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waridi1985 says:Posted: 04 Dec 14Where is my king
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ict says:Posted: 27 Mar 16
Oooo dear queen your king is here waitin for u. Herrrrrr very nice lady cant stop lookin at your pic
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duchess02 says:Posted: 10 Jan 14
Very great advice especially when it's your first time dating.
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bwluver says:Posted: 01 Jan 14
one step at a time
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kendyy says:Posted: 26 May 16
Woooh i like dhat
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Ugann says:Posted: 21 Jun 16
Sure ....
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Olammiri says:Posted: 28 Feb 22Great advice,still waiting for that special one
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