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Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships
Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they offered you a compliment that deeply affected you? One where you just carry the sentiment and that warm glowing feeling of validation it brings... read more

Why Your First Message Matters More Than You Think
Hey beautiful people! Leticia here, and today we're going to talk about something that can make or break your online dating success – that crucial first message. As someone who's helped countless co... read more

Let Your Dating Profile Pictures Do the Hard Work for You
Crafting the perfect dating profile is like curating a gallery of your life, where each picture is a brushstroke telling a story. From choosing the right angle to capturing genuine moments, your photo... read more

Why Having Nothing in Common Can Be the Key
Ever felt that initial spark fizzle out because you and your partner seem worlds apart? It's common to panic when you think, "We have nothing in common." But before you jump ship, consider this: diffe... read more

Why You Might Want to Try Dating Multiple People
In today's dating world, options are aplenty, especially with the rise of online dating. It's not uncommon to find yourself seeing multiple people at once or exploring different connections simultaneo... read more
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What Your Laugh Says About You
What Your Laugh Says About You Ever wondered what your sense of humor reveals about your personality? Recent research uncovers four distinct humor styles and the fascinating insights they offer into who we are and how we relate to ...
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How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date?
How Soon is Too Soon to Go Away with a Date? The beginning of a relationship is one of the most exciting times, filled with bright expectations and new adventures. One of the things that makes this period especially fun is the prospect of vacati...
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How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game
How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game You've found someone special, and you want to make sure you're being the best partner you can be. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or deepening your connection with a long-...
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5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships
5 Japanese Traditions That Strengthen Relationships When I first started coaching interracial couples, I noticed something interesting about my clients in relationships with Japanese partners. These couples often described practices that kept their bon...
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Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last?
Compatibility vs. Chemistry - What Makes Love Last? I don’t mean to pound the drum like this. Honestly. I don’t look for these articles; they just tend to find me. Thanks to living in the Information Age and the advent of Big Data, we now have the ...
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How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart
How to Get Over The Last Man Who Broke Your Heart I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man. It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have ...
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Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner
Evaluate Your Relationship, Not Your Partner At the risk of embarrassing myself (and a friend of mine), I’m going to share with you a conversation I had in 2008 when I was debating whether or not I should get married. It contained some price...
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You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men
You Have to Assume the Best In Men, Rather Than the Worst in Men You’ve been hurt by men before. You’ve been hurt bad. You’ve vowed to learn from the experience and protect yourself from that ever happening again. And to protect yourself from being hurt by a...
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You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally!
You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally! Have you ever felt stronger about someone than he felt about you? Have you ever been in a relationship where you were always worried about being dumped? Have you ever longed for someone’s affections...
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How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men
How to Know If You're Wasting Time on the Wrong Men One of the most common things I hear from my clients is this: “I understand that I have to compromise on some things to be in a relationship, but how do I know WHAT I should compromise on?” If yo...
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You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't
You Think You Attract The Wrong Men, But You Don't If you’re single, you’ve probably gone through hell in the dating world. Maybe you even think of it all as a dating game. Investing your time in guys who don’t follow through after a first date....
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Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing?
Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...
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Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years?
Does Marriage Mean Suffering Through A Lot of Horrible Years? As a longtime reader of your blog, I know you’re a proponent of good marriages as opposed to marrying solely for the sake of not being alone. I was recently watching a late night show on which Mich...
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My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do?
My Boyfriend Has a History of Sleeping with Prostitutes. What Should I Do? How does one deal with a man who has a history of having sex with prostitutes? Should one just let the past go? Well, here is one an email from one of our concerned readers... I met a man online la...
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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Infidelity is a topic that most people have a problem dealing with. Well, one of our readers met this very nice man recently. Unfortunately, he openly admitted that the reason he is separated from the...
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Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis?
Is it Okay to Talk with a Man About His Small Penis? Does size really matter? One of our readers is wondering if she should point this out to the great man she just met. Here is her email... I met a great guy on a dating site two months ago and we’ve ...
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Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me?
Why Would My Boyfriend Suddenly Break Up with Me? Katie was in what she thought was a great relationship. Until it suddenly ended after the guy kissed him goodbye. Little did she know it was the last. Here is her story...
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How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later?
How Do You Respond if a Guy Disappears and Follows Up a Week Later? One of our readers was concerned about how to respond to a guy who has disappeared. Not just the kind that disappears for months... just the kind who contacts you after a week or so. There goes... "I ...
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I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams
I Am No Longer Attracted to the Man of My Dreams One of our readers voiced her concerns about her dream man. Once upon a time, he was the full package. Now, not so much. The email read: "A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was...
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How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man?
How EXACTLY Do I Break Up With A Non-Committal Man? One of our readers emailed us this question. It read... Evan, I have read your advice on non-committal men. I have done everything wrong. Sleep with him when he wants, clear my schedule for him, revo...
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Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing?
Why Can't Men Refrain from Looking at Photos of Sexy Women and Fantasizing? Is it okay for men to be mentally unfaithful while in a loving relationship when it is so hurtful for women to do the same?
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Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s? One of our male readers was wondering... "I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that ...
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Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad
Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...
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How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good?
How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...
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Tips on Giving Compliments That Build on Relationships
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How To Be a Good Boyfriend: 10 Ways to Up Your Relationship Game
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Finishing Each Other's Sentences
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What Your Laugh Says About You
I personally feel a laugh can be an automatic response to a situation..For instance, A gesture befor...
A Taste for Adventure
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You Deserve A Partner Who Loves You Unconditionally!
Having revelation on the unhappy nature of a relationship in the future is such a hard reality, but ...