
Lessons to learn from black male swirlers
Black men have been dating interracially in greater numbers and for far longer than black women have. Historical data shows that once it was legal to date interracially (in America), they were the fir... read more
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Valuable Advice ALL Black Women Can Use
Valuable Advice ALL Black Women Can Use As black women, we face a unique set of challenges at the intersection of our race and sex. Cultural mores, seen as “the done thing” in the black community, such as birthing out of season, accepti...
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Black Women: The Article on Love You Need
Black Women: The Article on Love You Need Here is the thing, forget media sensationalization and the hype. You are in the game when it comes to love. There is a lot of data out there about love, marriage, and black women. A few years ago th...
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Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love!
Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...
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If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men?
If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...
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You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women
You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...
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Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts You
Black Women, Your Pain Only Matters When a White Man Hurts You “No! Stop! Help Me! Please Help Me!” Those were the words I heard when viewing a video in which someone conducted a Facebook Live of a woman appearing to be drugged and a man forcibly raping her ...
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The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in 'Bird Box' [SPOILER]
The Interracial Element You Might Have Missed in "Bird Box" [SPOILER] The Netflix film, Bird Box is a definitive hit. Produced by Sandra Bullock, the sci-fi horror film where an unknown force compels people to commit suicide is comprised of a ragtag group of people bar...
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Robert De Niro Splits from Grace Hightower. Why It Doesn't Matter.
Robert De Niro Splits from Grace Hightower. Why It Doesn't Matter. Last week’s news cycle comprised of the very sad news that Robert De Niro split from his wife of 20 years, Grace Hightower. Critics of interracial marriage in the bowels of the black sector of YouT...
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Are Black Women More 'Submissive' to White Men?
Are Black Women More "Submissive" to White Men? There’s a lot of salty complaints from men of our culture who say that black women magically become more feminine when they are paired with white men. When a non-black man enters the picture, black ...
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Korean Men Dish On What They Think of Black Women
Korean Men Dish On What They Think of Black Women In this video, Korean men dish their opinions about black women and reveal their attraction and admiration of them.
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How Middle-Aged Black Women Can WIN at Interracial Dating
How Middle-Aged Black Women Can WIN at Interracial Dating Dating at mid-life doesn’t have to completely suck, especially if you are aware of which market you should be shopping and have a grasp of the competition. Being a middle-aged black woman in the int...
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Interview: Interracial Marriage as a Baby Boomer
Interview: Interracial Marriage as a Baby Boomer Black female baby boomers grew up in a time where race relations in America were tense. Many black women of this generation are very hesitant to date interracially or marry interracially. I intervie...
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Do Today's Men REALLY Just Want to Be Women?
Do Today's Men REALLY Just Want to Be Women? As a woman in her mid-forties, I have been looking on with increasing horror the societal moves towards blurring gender lines to the point of complete neutrality, or worse; guiding men to lean towards...
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Does More IR Marriages In China Mean More AM/BW Matches Stateside?
Does More IR Marriages In China Mean More AM/BW Matches Stateside? Earlier this month, Al Jeezera reported a rise in interracial marriage between African women and Chinese men. The increase in intermarriage is a byproduct of the Chinese doing more commerce in African...
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(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER Date Interracially
(Almost) 20 Reasons Some Black Women Should NEVER Date Interracially Are you on the fence about interracial relationships. If you do anything remotely similar, hop back off the fence in the direction you came. Read on...
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Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman's Interracial Relationship
Black Woman Sued for Mocking White Woman's Interracial Relationship When are we going to realize that other ecosystems do act like everything is a tiff at the backyard barbeque? The New York Daily News recently reported that a black woman making fun of a white woman i...
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New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It
New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It Coming from ‘the girl who swirls,’ and the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Match & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed, you would think any media representations of interracial couples...
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What?! Successful, Non-Black Men Don't Like Curly and Kinky Hair?! {Watch the Video}
What?! Successful, Non-Black Men Don't Like Curly and Kinky Hair?! {Watch the Video} I interviewed several non-black men who are high-achieving and date black women on this issue, and all of them basically said that if they wanted a woman with straight hair...
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A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man
A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man I received this letter yesterday that so touched me, and I was delighted that he asked me to share this with you. With all the racially-charged rhetoric and fear-mongering, notes like this bring so mu...
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Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online
Match.com Says 35% of New Marriages Happening Online Online behemoth Match.com recently announced at the annual “Singles in America” study by Match Group the 35% of marriages occur online. This is huge. Just 12 years ago it was 3%. What is more, 60...
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Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men
Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men I’ve gotten about a dozen messages about a new interracial dating book in circulation. Northwestern University professor, Cheryl Judice, author of Interracial Relationships with Black Women and Whit...
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Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us.
Critics Coming Around to Swirling... After Trashing Us. There have been a lot of prior critics of this platform and the general idea of black women entertaining the romantic overtures of non-black men as of late. I find this interesting. Especially after ...
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Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects?
Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects? One of my fans confided in me that she was so set on dating Asian men that she learned Mandarin and Korean. She then set out for an extended trip to China to teach English. She never came back to the ...
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The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, Too.
The New York Times Notices More IR Commercials, Too. As I just watched yet another interracial couple featured in a Progressive Insurance ad, (you know, the ones where the kids start turning into their parents) I get a Facebook notification that the New...
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Would You Learn Another Language to Expand Your IR Dating Prospects?
I like what I like. Color is of no importance to me. God made us all and that's where I stand. Don't...
Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men
A BM entertainer who was once married to a popular female entertainer said that being married to onl...
Lessons to learn from black male swirlers
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QOTW: Do Rainbeaus Go For Bald/Short-Haired Women?
No that isn't true. I'm a proud short hair carrier and I love it. Many people equate me to different...
Are Black Women More 'Submissive' to White Men?
I would say. “Attentive “. My black girlfriend does things for me that white girls would find de...
Yes, Black Women DO Benefit from Interracial Dating and Marriage!
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Lessons to learn from black male swirlers
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Yes, Black Women DO Benefit from Interracial Dating and Marriage!
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A Letter of Encouragement to Black Women from Interracially Married Man
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So... What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Dating Interracially?
I read all of you all comments . At the end of the days. Be happy for your choice. Black person will...