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  1.   softenly says:
    Posted: 22 Oct 15

    Wow its wonderful im ready for the game lats tool

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  2.   Marcianah says:
    Posted: 13 Oct 15

    Put me in plzzzzzzzz

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  3.   gitt says:
    Posted: 13 Oct 15

    Ooh my my am trying to get one lady where are you

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  4.   Lymoh says:
    Posted: 08 Oct 15

    Count me in, I am ready for the game

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  5.   AMRO1 says:
    Posted: 08 Oct 15

    I wish

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  6.   kingsonme says:
    Posted: 08 Oct 15

    Take me off the bench and hook me up with a da

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  7.   beegee1 says:
    Posted: 03 Oct 15

    I'm in

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  8.   Hty29 says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 15

    l 'm ready, put me in.

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    • yabaas says:
      Posted: 20 Jan 16

      hi beautiful.... just surfing through here and had a crush on your profile.....it caught me up... will you please do me the honour by just accepting my friend request... thank You beautiful

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  9.   ntikeens says:
    Posted: 30 Sep 15

    Ready to explore

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  10.   KANDY57700 says:
    Posted: 12 Sep 15

    My drive is exstremly high an im no joke but knew to this an infactuated with white woman now

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  11.   prebs says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 15

    am so and very ready for everlasting love

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  12.   krrishna says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 15

    Did i need to go to a temple in search of love? Nothing survives forever but love,and that love is the need of every youngone.am mervelous,to be honest.

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  13.   facechi says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 15

    I am very good in game of love and romantic.

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  14.   Kwamess says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 15

    I need a white or black woman for serious relationship and im ready now.

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  15.   gujar says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 15

    I like it

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  16.   kareya says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 15

    i am ready

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  17.   jarawo says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 15

    Yes my picture is perfect My English is excellent , Pigs doesn't fly , Honest is the best policy to your beloved one

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  18.   madolly says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 15

    Wow. I'm do speechless I've never go wrong with dis game

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  19.   Rupharo says:
    Posted: 01 Aug 14

    Flame on i was born ready

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  20.   Jefftidy says:
    Posted: 31 Jul 14

    interested in the game, lets get going guys!

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  21.   AG10 says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 14

    Wow”!this is an eye opener to me.I don't think I will go wrong after this.tnx

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  22.   soluction.p says:
    Posted: 01 Jul 14

    am in for the game

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  23.   tshepo10 says:
    Posted: 23 Jun 14

    im ready put me in...

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  24.   stg3 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 14

    put me in am ready

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  25.   raj-vee says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 14

    Put me in the game I'm sick Of warming the bench up put me in the game I'm ready to do B I'm ready to go with them full speed ahead what I need to do.Where is the best to meet single white ladies 30-50

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  26.   Swanjik says:
    Posted: 22 Mar 14

    Gee get da game on play it safe n responsibly

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  27.   Ayo7878 says:
    Posted: 19 Jan 14

    I'm ready for the game.

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  28.   richloves says:
    Posted: 06 Dec 13

    I AM READY FOR THE GAME

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  29.   Josh10 says:
    Posted: 01 Dec 13

    Yea right! Lets do this...

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  30.   Goobi42 says:
    Posted: 28 Nov 13

    Put me on its ok

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  31.   flk963 says:
    Posted: 25 Nov 13

    Am ready

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  32.   angie2013 says:
    Posted: 24 Nov 13

    Am ready to play put me in .

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  33.   Icetboogy says:
    Posted: 15 Nov 13

    Am ready

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  34.   Timidanking says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 13

    "Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it'scalled falling in love, because you don't forceyourself to fall, you just fall." "Love demands infinitely less than friendship." "Friendship is the perfection of love, and superior to love; it is love purified, exalted, proved by experience and a consent of minds. Love, Madam, may, and love does, often stop short of friendship."

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  35.   Timidanking says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 13

    A WISE WOMAN ONCE WROTE: If you're not being treated with love and respect,... Check your "Price Tag" perhaps you have marked yourself down & didn't know it... It's "you" who tells people what you're worth by what you accept. Get off the "Clearance Rack" and get behind the glass where they keep all the VALUABLES.. Bottom line is.. VALUE yourself.

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  36.   Timidanking says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 13

    count me in I can't wait... lol yes!!!

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  37.   Midnight6 says:
    Posted: 27 Sep 13

    I don't understand this clip. Make fun of online dating.

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  38.   Kathleen16 says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 13

    This is so enhancing thank you so much.

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  39.   Kathleen16 says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 13

    This is so enhancing thank you guys.

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  40.   terroris says:
    Posted: 05 Sep 13

    I wana live life to the fullest

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  41.   moses666 says:
    Posted: 02 Sep 13

    Yes am ready to play put me in.

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  42.   chancie says:
    Posted: 17 Aug 13

    am a player so need full time game and no watching my friens scoring goals

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  43.   Brwghw says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 13

    are you going to show any pictures?

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  44.   Alhaji27 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 13

    Absolutely Yes and i'm perfectly ready can you put me in the game?

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  45.   kzaz says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 13

    betiful

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  46.   kizweng says:
    Posted: 01 Jul 13

    put me on the game am ready

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  47.   FILYPHILLEY says:
    Posted: 24 Jun 13

    I want to get off the beach and play the game.

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  48.   foreally says:
    Posted: 26 May 13

    This is great and funny. Aside from the humor, which I love, seriously speaking, this has been an issue for someone like me. I'm from NC and was never taught to go after a guy. Although I have sort of initiated before, it seems like the guy gets too used to it and expects the gal to continue to do all the initiating....My thoughts are that I sometimes can set aside my ego, pride, fear, etc to make the first move, but don't expect it to stay like that. I think that a number of men are so stuck on the stereotype that black women are independent and strong that they don't stop to think that these women don't really want to have to do all the work at all, but we sometimes feel we have to. As a final note, I've noticed (for me at least) once a guy does make the first move, or a move at all, he can expect me to feel more comfortable and therefore more likely to step up and be more proactive.

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  49.   Kingkay says:
    Posted: 16 May 13

    Am ready nw?

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  50.   pasowa2 says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 13

    Please i am ready put me on the game

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