Rain Couldn't Ruin This Proposal
“I have had a hard life,” says James. “Losing three wives while collecting three children along the way. I had been working on my skills as a single dad, but I knew I wanted to find a woman to share the rest of my life with. God brought Meika to me…”
Meika, aka “Chewsy1,” lived up to her screen name because she chose to contact James! No “newbie” to Internet personals, Meika was proactive rather than waiting for fellows to approach her on our site. The member with the username “JimPlus3inVA” stood out to her for some reason. “He seemed genuine and intelligent,” she says of James.
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What drew Meika to date online was a jam-packed itinerary. “I didn’t have time to go the traditional route,” she explains. Meika was “fairly confident” she’d stumble across the right profile eventually. While she didn’t know it at the time, Jim was just the guy she’d signed up to meet…
Jim was a believer in the power of personals on the Internet. “I knew this was my best chance to meet the right woman,” he tells us. Jim had only been a member for a few days when he received Meika’s Flirt. They quickly exchanged email addresses. Recalls Jim, “She seemed like a dream come true — beautiful, intelligent, with a good career.”
As they got to know each other nothing set off any incompatibility alerts, so the date-scheduling process began. “He lived 600 miles away but had a trip planned that could put him in the area,” says Meika. Jim elaborates, “I had a trip planned to take my children to Mississippi and leave them for a week. Going to Florida was as good as any other plan for that week!”
He was sure glad he made the drive. Jim’s first thought on seeing Meika in person was, “Wow! She is so beautiful. I am so blessed.” Meika was delighted to see that her date was a dead ringer for the person in his profile photo. Whew! But that’s not all. Jim adds, “She let me kiss her and everything was perfect.” Meika agrees. “He was a good kisser,” she adds. A picturesque fountain made the ideal backdrop for their smooch.
After that, both were “very sure” there’d be a “Meika & Jim Go Out: Part 2.” She was surprised at some things about him she hadn’t been aware of. “He was quite witty and had a good sense of humor, with a hint of sarcasm. He is compassionate and loves without any constraints.”
Jim was blown away by how cool Meika was. Her strengths cover up his weaknesses. “She is my perfect complement,” he says. “To borrow a line from a movie, she completes me! She fills in the areas where I am sometimes lacking.”
Surprisingly, Meika wouldn’t have described Jim if asked what she wanted at the very beginning of her search. “He’s nothing like the type I thought I needed,” she admits now, but adds “that is a good thing!” Jim considers Meika a perfect partner for him. “I needed a woman who would accept me and my family and be a good wife, great friend and good mother to my children.”
Having found that woman, James saw no reason to postpone the inevitable any longer. “We had talked about getting married for some time, but I did not want to propose to Meika until I had a ring,” he says. “I also needed to be in the same town to do it! In June of 2012, I sent my children down to Florida to live with her while I sold my home in Virginia. In July, I came down to join everyone. I took her to dinner at a fine restaurant near where we had our first date and our first kiss. Since it was raining, my proposal ended up being in the restaurant rather than near the fountain where we shared our first kiss. She loved the ring. So did all of her friends!”
Meika is thrilled to have found her other half. “I have a warm sense of security and fulfillment,” she beams. “I was beginning to believe I would never be married! Now I am married to a good man and have a loving family. Everything seemed to fall into place as if God made it all come together!”
To readers who would like to tell their own version of this story someday, Meika advises you to “be patient and believe!” James also has something to say to those in search of a lasting partnership. “Above all, be honest about what you want, who you are and your relationship status. Think with your heart and head, not with your animal desires. Ask for God’s wisdom and be willing to accept His plan. Be patient about the process, and with any potential date.”
Patience paid off for James and Meika. There’s no reason to think it won’t be the same for you!
78 responses to "Rain Couldn't Ruin This Proposal"
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Uloms says:Posted: 15 Jun 19Good story, I'm encouraged by it and will therefore, persevere in my search. Sandy
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Aminibeauty says:Posted: 27 Jan 19This is sweet never give up on love there is someone out there for you.I hope i find my love too.
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Joshgard says:Posted: 28 Jul 18Hi i m pastor Gardner i love your profit and want us to be friend' u can email me'
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asaddr says:Posted: 11 Jul 18I am from Palestine, I am 24 years old, not connected
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amenyee says:Posted: 18 Mar 18
Very interested, relationship. I also met my partner on these very platform. We are on it gradually. By God's grace, we are also going to share our successful relationship with you. After our marriage.
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Smellieandre says:Posted: 08 Mar 18
Wow! Am waiting for Mr Right in my life I would make him so happy bless you guys am happy for you both am next in life for my blessings my husband is waiting on me on this site
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Sunshinejoy1 says:Posted: 11 Feb 18I’ve dated online and married long distance from another site, it wasn’t successful. Reading the success stories of others even the long distance ones leaves me hopeful that one day my prince will come! Congratulations
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Iamdivyandre says:Posted: 22 Feb 18True talk my dear, and even when you met the right person you still feel he's not
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Olivix says:Posted: 20 Dec 17Niceness just hope for this to happen in my life
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YUNNYYOUNG says:Posted: 26 Oct 17
Wah it was a dream come true l wish them a happy marriage Stacey
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Kasirudda says:Posted: 06 Oct 17I wish you all the best one day also I will be in same happiness
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roseketty200 says:Posted: 22 Sep 17
God bless the couple.indeed God s time is the best.Let God send me a good soul mate so that i wil be the next person to testify his goodness
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bracky23 says:Posted: 12 Jul 17wow lucky u.. hope 1 day i will be the one giving a testimony
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alouboy says:Posted: 10 Jul 17Wow that's wonderful great I hope I will find someone to get married too
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Kemmy08 says:Posted: 28 Jun 17Wow!This is what we really call chemistry and love. Congrats to the couple and where on earth will I meet such that doesn't talk about pleasure but be real and serious about everything.
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Nukile says:Posted: 09 May 17
I just want to be the next to meet the man of my life
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Naommy5 says:Posted: 31 Jan 17Wow congratulation to the new couple rain is blessing to their wedding
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Dorall says:Posted: 10 Sep 16Is never too late, God's time is the best time.... wish you success.
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Dorall says:Posted: 01 Aug 16
Woowww such anice and encouraging story. I believe my dream will come true as well.... I am happy for you guys.
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Tiger7041 says:Posted: 26 Jun 16I live in Jacksonville. That picture is at the Landing . the river walk. So happy for you both
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Mabhee says:Posted: 09 Jun 16
Such a wonderful story n I believe that one day it will be my turn n get the love of my life. God's time is the best. He never be early or late
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Lcd_3434 says:Posted: 03 Dec 15
Beautiful story you two.
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saroni says:Posted: 10 Nov 15That sure is a beautiful story, I would like that too.I would love to be a wife and a mother again.Still searching. ..
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12kissablle says:Posted: 24 Oct 15I'm happy for you both may God bless your union continually. Amazing story
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