You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection
“Online dating does work, and I’m living proof of that,” says Nandi, who used our site to meet a man she’s mad for. “For some people, it doesn’t take long to find that certain someone. For others, it takes quite awhile. The main thing is, don’t ever give up. The longer it takes, the more rewarding it’ll be when you find that special person.”
Dustin, Nandi’s new beau, advises singles to “keep your head up and keep looking. Just because you don’t find someone right away doesn’t mean you won’t! Your perfect person is out there.”
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Nandi joined our site with the sense that this could be big for her. She explains... “I was more confident than most because some of my family members have found their loved ones on dating sites.”
A newcomer to the online personals scene, Nandi was excited by the possibilities as she explored our site. “It was my first experience! I thought it would be fun. Plus, it’s easier to narrow down what you’re looking for.”
Dustin, however, was wrestling with significant doubts about dating online. “I was not confident,” he admits. “I was losing hope. I wanted to try online dating because there were no good women in my area I would want to date. I figured online dating was my best option.”
Unfortunately, Dustin’s initial forays into the online dating pool were unsuccessful. “I had used several sites before, with no luck.” Still, something convinced him to roll the dice on us. “I was giving online sites one last try before cutting my losses,” he says of his decision to sign up.
Nandi and Dustin joined at about the same time. It was only a couple of weeks before their paths crossed. Nandi wrote in her profile that she was interested in quantum astronomy and quantum physics. So “Dustin86” sent “Seaflower912” (Nandi) an email complimenting her on her intelligence. He didn’t expect to receive anything in return. But Nandi wrote back. “We began talking every day,” she says.
Sometimes people seem great on the surface, but the more you get to know them, the more you know there’s no match to be made. In Dustin’s case, Nandi passed each successive test with flying colors. “My first impression of her when I saw her profile was ‘Wow! She’s smart, and pretty!’ That impression solidified and I knew I was hooked. This girl was everything I was looking for: intelligent, sweet, charming, beautiful. The whole package.”
After close to two months of emailing and calling one another every day, Dustin and Nandi were ready to road test this relationship in the making. “I thought I knew as much about her as I possibly could without meeting in person,” says Dustin. So he decided to take this courtship to the next level.
For their first date, they went bowling and had dinner afterwards. Nandi shares her impressions. “My first thought was how tall he was, which I loved, and how handsome and well dressed. He was a gentleman. He was also very independent and mature for his age.”
Dustin was intoxicated by Nandi’s feminine grace. “My first thought was how pretty she was, and how much I liked her hair,” he says. “But I was surprised she was so quiet, when we had talked about so much on the phone and over email.”
Nandi may have been a bit shy in their first meeting, but Dustin’s gregarious personality filled the silences. “I was surprised at how outspoken and lively he was, although I shouldn’t have been because he’d seemed that way over the phone.”
As the end of the date drew near, neither party wanted to walk away. “We both had a wonderful evening and wanted to see each other again,” says Nandi. “The fact that I didn’t want to part ways after our first date was a reassurance for me.” Dustin was thoroughly convinced, as well. “I knew I wanted to go out again!”
Their relationship progressed steadily from there. Nandi came to find that the guy in her life was even more impressive than advertised. “Many things didn’t come across in his profile that I know now and really appreciate. He’s extremely caring and protective. He’s also very driven, which is good motivation for me!”
Dustin didn’t corner the market on ambition, though. “I really like how passionate Nandi is,” he says. “In everything she does, she tries to accomplish it to the best of her ability. Whether it’s writing a new song, or cooking a meal….”
We usually ask couples if their partner is exactly the person they always hoped to find, or a surprise match. Of Dustin, Nandi says “his personality was different than my ‘type,’ but better than what I’d hoped for. But we are very similar when it comes to intelligence, creativity, and physical activity.”
Dustin didn’t have a type in the traditional sense, but he did set priorities before embarking on his search for love. “I had actually written up a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a partner. Nandi has every attribute!”
Nandi is still blissed out by her good fortune. “I never really thought having someone in my life could make me want to experience more, or even make me happier. But I’m happier now than ever, and it’s a great feeling.”
Dustin and Nandi are helping each other to grow and mature. Their mutual and individual goals seem much more attainable with a supportive partner in their corner. Dustin is well aware of the impact his sweetheart has made on his life. “Since I met Nandi, I am a lot happier and more motivated to push myself. I want to succeed and accomplish a lot, not only for myself but to make her proud.”
For singles seeking the advice of someone who made our site work for them, Nandi has this to say. “You have to know exactly what you want when you begin. You can’t accept every Flirt or message you get from people, because it’s a waste of your time and theirs if you know they’re not what you’re looking for. Use that time searching for the one you want!”
Dustin has also thought about suggestions to share with our membership. “There are a lot of people who you may think you could like but, without definite guidelines, you can get lost in all the profiles. Don’t settle for someone you will not be truly happy with.”
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Omugabe says:Posted: 05 May 18Just for you people, and hopefully to join you soon will post our couple too,hmmmm. God bless your marriage
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Mamfethel says:Posted: 26 Apr 18Destiny brought them together...not a write up...
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Ever.kathy says:Posted: 26 Mar 18
I believe everybody in life has a time destined for him or her. There time came and they utilized it adequately. Mine is soonest
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Johnraju says:Posted: 01 Apr 18Really you write true time is everything in life and everything God give
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Aanandm says:Posted: 22 Mar 18OK I hope n god will help to search my true life partner
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Abbybe says:Posted: 12 Feb 18Wow wow wow , I envy you people. It gives me hope
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AkuLov22 says:Posted: 10 Feb 18It's really nice I wish I ll be one of this story one day
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Ik69 says:Posted: 31 Jan 18
I have also waiting who is real love me I have need good girl she understand my filling
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asamoahn17 says:Posted: 30 Jan 18Am sick and tired of waiting for my soul mate,for how long must i wait? Any way time is money.
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Boowow says:Posted: 29 Dec 17quite remarkable move and inspiration especially to me
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Newamkaima says:Posted: 21 Dec 17
Very nice indeed! Am also would like to make that same love Destiny.
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PaulaD says:Posted: 09 Dec 17Nice I hope have my king
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Johannesbu says:Posted: 01 Jan 18
Hi am here for you
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budesiyana says:Posted: 07 Dec 17Its very good, let me wait maybe next time I will get girlfriend/window to be with her forever
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JPM1968FS924 says:Posted: 06 Dec 17Mmmmm wonderful experiences,I will not give up ,I believe I will find my right man here .
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Dornlee says:Posted: 02 Dec 17Timely tips. I am happy for ýou. Clearly, the moons were aligned and nature çhipped in. Two souls became one. They twinned and thats a basis for true and lasting love. I love this story
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Mwambur says:Posted: 08 Nov 17That's so interesting and encouragement for others I think we have to learn from their experience and that nothing good comes from a silver plate u ve to work hard and commit urself fully too I wish them all the best in their r/ship
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yeshvarma says:Posted: 07 Nov 17Thanq for valuable information and congratulations both of u...
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colamashaa says:Posted: 28 Oct 17It is nice to meet lovely and honest person.
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Mariadiana says:Posted: 25 Oct 17Sweet story.... I hope i will have soon my sweet story
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Oracle555 says:Posted: 16 Oct 17Nice one n enjoy ur relationship to de fullness
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Wow very touchy
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alice26 says:Posted: 17 Sep 17woow.....am so impressed and congratulations to you two
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hlehleriza says:Posted: 16 Sep 17Woooow that's great,I wish I could get my king too
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Jollyguy4uin says:Posted: 04 Nov 17
You'll surely get 1 for you. All the best
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snora says:Posted: 19 Aug 17Thanks for such wonderful advise because I almost gave up and I was told that easy come easy go so I must take my time
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Johnnyflyer says:Posted: 05 Aug 17
I agree you cant accept every flurt or message and have a clear idea in your head also how far you are prepared to travel as well to meet each other. Good luck to both of you.... john x
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Ciallo says:Posted: 02 Aug 17All the best to all those who live a testimony. Happy for you.
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Ciallo says:Posted: 02 Aug 17
I am a one person who never easily give up but I have wondered all over to get my partner but nothing so I tend to give up. To this point am tired I guess
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Elliot13 says:Posted: 17 Aug 17
There so many people who are single but just because others they don't use this site to find their lovers that's why it's not easy to have it but keep trying don't give up ok , am also one of those but am trying up to when I'll find my loved one.
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Ur right partner will surely hookup with you I believe things will be alright
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shiellla says:Posted: 29 Nov 17
im new here .i join a lot of dating site but is really.difficult to find a right man for me .hope this site can find my true love.
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Anilsharma32 says:Posted: 21 Jan 18Yeah Shiela.. try this...where u belongs from..
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Betty1974 says:Posted: 31 Jul 17
Am wandering if am going to be lucky
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Jollyguy4uin says:Posted: 04 Nov 17
Hope you get the one who loves you soo much
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Jamesvertex says:Posted: 28 Jul 17
Wow that's great congratulation to you, I know my is one day
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Comanche999 says:Posted: 27 Jul 17I can never find me a native American wife who's a jahovahs witness plus before I became a witness the wemon only wanted a quick or you're money or they say hit the road
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