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William & Deb -
Alabama, United States

Expectations Were Exceeded

One night, “CandidGent” and “DebsSearch” left their screen names on our site and met in person for a date. They bowled a few frames, had dinner and even played a game of pool. “I let her win,” William claims.

William was surprised at how different Deb looked in person compared to her profile picture. “She had one profile pic, which I had seen,” he explains. “So, I expected her to look like her profile pic: good looking. I was pleasantly surprised because she was much more beautiful in person!”

Deb adds that her date “had a winning smile. He was also courteous and attentive!”

Let’s backtrack a bit. Just a month earlier, neither William nor Deb was a member of our site. William is an intelligent, rational kind of guy. He calculated that he had “probably less than a 2-in-10 chance of finding love online.” Deb says she had “no confidence” in online personals, but she was willing to try something new.

Sometimes that’s how these stories start. Two people become members of our site without much optimism about it. Then love sneaks up on them in the most surprising way…

Deb sent William a Flirt she knew he couldn’t ignore. It got his attention. He’d only been a member for two weeks, and already there was an intriguing woman contacting him! Checking out her profile, William found that Deb was exactly what he’d been looking for. He describes her as a great match when it comes to age, education and interests.

Deb was looking for an ambitious, educated man who was down-to-earth, open-minded and a traveler. She thought that William fit all of those criteria and also “had a solid idea of what he was looking for in a woman.”

With all that going for them, it should come as no surprise to hear that their first date was a success. As was their second. And their third. These two aren’t making big plans—they’re still in the early stages of a relationship—but there’s no lack of optimism now.

“We’re going to continue to enjoy each other and share various experiences together,” William says. Deb agrees. “We are enjoying each other's company!” she says. “He remembers the things I say, even when I think that he’s not listening.”

We get the feeling that William could extoll Deb’s virtues all day. “She is everything I could ask for: smart, funny, down-to-earth, silly, supportive, beautiful, considerate, generous. The list goes on!”

William would certainly recommend that other singles follow in his footsteps. What does he have to say about online dating now? “It’s safer, saves time and allows one the ability to filter.” Deb tells us that she “wanted to meet someone with common goals and interests.” Sounds like that’s exactly what she found.

If something like this is what you’re looking for, we’d say you’re in the right place.